Wednesday, March 08, 2006

When Dad Killed Mom

Title: When Dad Killed Mom
Author: Julius Lester

When first the book was in my hands, I was swamped with work and assignments. I was hesitating whether to start reading and when I could complete reading the book - with all the other factors crowding my mind. The title of the book had me hesitating as well, as I didn't want to be brought down with heavy reading that will take up my time and distract me from work and assignments.... However, against all these notions, I opened the book and glanced through the first page, second page.... fifth page... tenth page... and by then, I knew I couldn't put the book down. I had to continue or not sleep for the night wondering how the book went. Admittedly it did took me at least three nights, before I could finally complete the books (Ayman was very jealous of the book... it did took up my time from him! hehehehe)....

Hmmm.... The book is a well written book about the aftermath of a murder. At first the title did portray something gory, that I was afraid of, but I am glad I read the book. The book revolves around Jenna and Jeremy.

Jenna and Jeremy's father Eric has just killed their mother Rachel and they are left with to pick up the pieces of his heinous crime. The story is narrated alternately from both Jenna and Jeremy's point of view. It is really interesting to read from their perspectives and how they felt - betrayal, coming to terms of their mom's death, coping with each other, dealing with their volatile feelings towards their father...

The story follows the two children as they struggle to come to terms with the heart-breaking legacy their father has left behind. Not the closest of siblings, with Jenna having been a Daddy's girl, and Jeremy getting on better with their mother, the two siblings are forced to reconcile their differences in order to survive the future. Not easy when you both have the weight of the world on your young shoulders.

There were times, reading as someone on the outside, you feel anger at the way the children are manipulated by some of the adults... in order to get what they want from the children. There were also times when I felt like family life before the murder were taken lightly and a lot of unresolved issues were the keypoint for the cause of the murder. It reminded me back to the time before I got married. An aunt of mine passed a little something to prepare myself for married life. She said not to bring the squabbles of today to tomorrow. Live a new day with a new perspective. She also told me to settle anything that is troubling the mind on that day and not sleep on it, as then the uneasiness and pricks of anger will be nourished to something ugly.

Anyway, back to the story, apart from their confusing feelings and uncertainty, there is their father's trial to deal with, a traumatic experience for both youngsters, plus secrets that need to be told as well as old family conflicts that have to be dealt with. I won't tell you what secrets, as you'll have to find the book and read through it yourself.

I highly recommend this book and thanks to Zelureus for recommending the book. This is a sharply written book with good dialogue, some of it very grown-up in places. Jenna is a precocious 8th grader, whilst Jeremy is almost bird-like, fluttering uncertainly at first as he tries to sort out in his head what made his father kill his mother. Both children bounce off the adult characters, such as Karen their father's first wife, their grandparents and an assortment of friends and curious hangers-on.

A thought provoking book that deals with the concept of violent death in sensitive and none-condescending manner.